Due to recent events in the profession, sexual harrassment has received a great deal of discussion around the philosophy blogosphere as of late. I take it that this is a good thing, all-things-considered, particularly given the kinds of experiences women in our profession have reported. It is important to have open discussion about sexual harrassment and gender equity. Be that as it may, given that our blog is intended to be a safe-and-supportive forum for early career philosophers, I for one am glad that our community has not fallen prey to certain kinds of discussions of recent events.
Nevertheless, there is an important professional issue that is relevant to early-career philosophers which I think can, and should, be discussed in an environment such as ours: namely, the issue of consensual relationships between faculty and graduate students in their department. This issue has not, to my knowledge, been discussed publicly in relation to recent events, and I for one think it is an important one to discuss openly, in a measured, respectful, safe, and supportive way.
I want to discuss this issue for a few reasons. First, I came across the following post the other day over at "What is it like to be a woman in philosophy?":
I work in a small, relatively unproductive, unnoticed philosophy department. One of our tenured faculty members is in a committed relationship with one of his female students. He is her thesis and teaching supervisor. The relationship began shortly after she joined the department. My department tacitly condones this relationship by ignoring it. I find my department’s tacit condoning of this situation offensive and sexist. 1) It is unfair to her. As an Associate, he has all of the power. 2) It is unfair to the other students in the program. There is no doubt or question that she has and will receive special treatment. 3) It is unfair to other faculty. How can we be expected to grade her without bias? 4) It sends the wrong message to the few female students in the department. I have personally witnessed public displays of affection between the two. I think that it not only sends the wrong message to those of us within the department, but also to other departments.
Second, given that I have experienced this type of situation myself as an observer, I have experienced these same types of feelings myself (for obvious reasons, I am not going to give any details about the context in which I experienced these things). My third reason for raising the issue is that, as I understand it, many universities and academic departments do not prohibit consensual (romantic) relationships between faculty and graduate students, but rather, require certain forms of disclosure of the relationship and the imposition of various institutional rules to govern such situations. This is important, I think, because as I understand it this is quite unusual in the employment world. Many employers do explicitly prohibit romantic relationships between superiors and subordinates. Finally, I think it is important to discuss the issue because, in reader recent discussions on a number of blogs, there seem to be significant numbers of people who think that (romantic) relationships between faculty and graduate students are perfectly okay.
For all of these reasons, after I share some of own thoughts momentarily, I would like to open up this issue to safe and respectful dialogue. Given the nature and mission of this blog, I will use my capacity as moderator to vigorously ensure that the discussion is discussed in a measured way, and that no one "steps over the line." Also, before I state some of my views on the issue, I want to state clearly and emphatically that nothing I say should be taken as a personal or moral slight against anyone who is or has been involved in a consensual faculty/graduate student relationship. I believe that good and well-intentioned people can disagree over the ethics of such relationships in the workplace, and want to make sure that the Philosophers' Cocoon is -- in line with its mission -- a place where everyone, including anyone who has been involved in or is supportive of such relationships, feels safe and supported. It is my hope and belief that, however we may differ over the issue in question, we can have a safe and supportive discussion of it.
Witout further ado, I would like to share my thoughts on the issue. My feeling, based on personal experience, is that consensual relationships between faculty and graduate students, even if they are properly disclosed, and however innocent the intentions of the parties involved may be, present others with a hostile work environment.
First, graduate students who work in a department with consensual relationships between faculty and graduate students tend to feel, not unreasonably, that they are at a professional disadvantage. For, although institutional rules may exist to prevent romantically-based professional favoritism, such rules are, in my experience, largely ineffectual. Romantically-linked partners can and sometimes do benefit tremendously as a result of romantic liasons. Given how few academic jobs there are, this seems to me a professional injustice, and one that exists as long as relationships between faculty and graduate students are permitted.
Second, in my experience -- and this is, obviously, related to recent events in the profession -- consensual relationships between faculty and graduate students can and often do go horribly wrong, and when they do, they can (and again, sometimes do) cause great personal and professional harm to a great many people.
Third, consensual relationships between faculty and graduate students seem to me -- once again, on the basis of my own experience -- to severely undermine professional trust in the workplace. One should be able to go to work reasonably confident in one's beliefs that one is being judged on one's merits, not on the basis of romantic interest or lack thereof. Although it is of course always possible to wonder whether one is being judged on one's merits rather than on the basis of romantic interest (or lack thereof), even in the absence of romantic relationships in the workplace, when romantic relationships between faculty and graduate students exist it is very difficult for many people to go to work and pursue their degree feeling reasonably confident that they are being judged on their merits.
These, at any rate, are some of my main moral and professional worries about permitting consensual relationships between faculty and grad students. As the above post over at "What is it like...?" indicates, there are probably other worries to discuss as well. However, because I have no idea what it is like to be the subject of romantic interest by a superior, I cannot comment directly on the effects of power-differentials on those involved in such relationships. I do, however, think it is important to point out that, intuitively, it is very easy for a "consensual" relationship to quickly become the opposite -- if, for instance, one of the parties to the relationship loses interest but then feels trapped in the liason due to worries about possible professional retaliation for ending the relationship (instances which, if I recall correctly, have been expressed in the past over at "What is it like...?").
I recognize that there are some who may reply to all of these worries by saying, "Yes, but some relationships between graduate students and faculty have ended up in marriage", or "Yes, but it is draconian to prohibit consensual romantic liasons in the workplace." To which I reply: (1) the fact that something can end up in marriage doesn't make it the kind of thing we should permit in the workplace, given the moral and professional hazards involved, and (2) I do not see what is draconian about prohibiting certain kinds of relationships given the moral hazards involved. For, as we have seen recently, such relationships can end careers, not to mention lead to legal, professional, and personal misery for significant numbers of people, regardless of whether, in any relevant respect, their behavior was otherwise innocent. The way I see it, there are millions of people in this world a person can potentially date or engage in romantic liasons with at any given time. Making a couple dozen of people "off limits" for a few years is not too much to ask.
Or so I think. I am willing to listen with an open mind to dissenting opinions.
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